"If you aren't good at loving yourself, you will have a difficult time loving anyone, since you'll resent the time and energy you give another person that you aren't even giving to yourself."
Its true. This is what I felt till yet by looking around me specially my close friends...
We always make couple of unknown mistakes in our love lives... Later we repent over it...
We just keep on wishing, "If I would have done it in other way..." The person who can't love and respect themselves.. can they prove to be good loving and respecting partners..????
(All this real crap applies to all of us who are in love & complain, without gender discrimination...)
At the initial stage.. We do all that things we don't do normally just in order to impress the special one... Then after we are successful and our love-life begins, gradually we forget about doing same extraordinary things... Now we seem to be careless... I don't understand one thing... to carry on a successful love-life do we need to be Extraordinary forever...???
In the beginning we follow some quotation like "Love is like a bird, don't hold it hard or it'll die.. just leave it free, if it comes back it's your's or else it was never meant to be your's."
What the F**K!! Who said this... Bring him on and ask him/her did he/she ever do so??
Possessiveness sets in..& it has to set in... no one can avoid it... Some say its bad to be possessive... May I know why is it so? It's totally illogical to be not possessive at all... but yes extreme must be avoided..
It's basic human nature to expect things in return... Everyone does.. and there is no harm in doing so.. till you don't feel hurt when your expectations are not fulfilled...
Some probable lunatic said, "True love means giving up all Expectations"
It should be like,"True one-sided love means giving up all expectation" because expecting in one-sided love is like been in love with the wall and trying to hug it...lolzzz
Whosoever doesn't expects is practically not in love... If I'm true to my love.. I'll expect her to be true to me...
But if I'm a infidel... then how can I complain when she turns out to be the same or how can I expect her to be faithful to me??? Isn't their anything known as conscience??
Well this is too much of ugly business of love guru which i did...
Well friends its all what I felt... nothing personal...
N yes.. to my girl.. Thank you for making me feel special...and top of the world.. Without you I would've never ever learned about how to love... like just love... nothing more nothing less... Love ya sweetheart...
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